Frustrated with women?
Frustrated with the dating game in general?
Getting fed up with having minimal or non-existent results when it comes to the women in your life?
In 2018 its no longer as easy as it used to be, to meet and attract women. This article will discuss why that is, and what you can do about it.
Note: I’m not a dating coach, probably never will be, but I’m single, and I’m out there running into some of the same frustrations that many of you guys are. Even guys that do have good game, and actually know what they’re doing, are feeling the effects of this broken, fractured dating market of today.
I’m speaking mainly to those of you that live in a western culture (US, Canada, western Europe), because those are the countries where feminism has really made things harder.
The so called ”game” of attracting women as we know it, has changed. Perhaps a better way of saying that, is that:
The Game Has Evolved.
This is only normal, as sooner or later things are going to evolve and change. However I haven’t read many articles that have addressed these changes, at least not all in one article. I’ll to do that with this article.
What I’m also going to do is give you a blueprint, for how you can stand out and succeed in today’s broken dating market.
I’m about to divulge a lot of information onto you, so get ready.
If you’re a single man in today’s western society, then this article was written directly for you. I will be speaking DIRECTLY to you here. No one will be more affected by what I’m about to say, than you will.
Actually, you already are being affected, you just may not realize it yet.
The time has come, to shine light on the realities of the current state of game.
That statement…..that ”the game has changed”, is a bold one. It’s a claim that needs to be understood and appreciated fully, before you’ll truly understand why solutions are needed.
So what do I mean by the statement ”the game has changed?”. How exactly? And in what ways?
I’m so glad that you asked. The 1st step towards overcoming a problem, is realizing one exists in the 1st place. I know I’ve mentioned that before, but I really can’t mention it enough times, because it’s so true.
An additional problem you’ll soon face, will be your failure to adapt to these changes. I’ve harped on this before, but adaptation is necessary in life and business, if you’re going to survive.
The failure to do so will mean extinction.
I’ve narrowed this down to what I believe to be 5 top reasons why game has changed since 2003. The truth is, most these changes have slowly been occurring over the last 40 years (since the start of sexual revolution). It has only been in the last 15 years that the changes have really picked up steam and accelerated.
The 3 Top Reasons Why & How Game Has Changed Since 2003:
1.) Technology And The Global Widespread Use Of The Smartphone Have Made Real Interactions With Women More Difficult.
This is without question, the #1 thing that has changed things. The I-Phone turning the young millennial generation into nothing but zombies. Hell even the people that didn’t grow up with smart phone’s (people my age or older) are getting addicted to their phones now. It’s ruining the fabric of our society. The Silicon Valley bastards that created this technology are even starting to admit that now.
As far as globalization is concerned, what is starting to happen now unfortunately, is that the i-phone is making everywhere the same, and nowhere different.
Unless wide-spread conscious awareness of this is realized, then 40-60 years from now you can expect everyone in every country to look and act the exact same. Everywhere you go will look like an international airport, because as the western society spreads (through the smartphone), so too will the multiculturalism.
The smartphone is simply speeding this process up.
I visited Costa Rica recently, and I noticed that the girls on Tinder there, are starting to give off that same ”Instagram model” behavior, that North American girls love to exhibit so much.
What the smartphone is doing, and more specifically apps like Tinder, Bumble etc., is they are facilitating hypergamy. They’re giving women more and more and more options. AKA: ”Dick On Demand”.
A 6 on Tinder even recently got 7,000 matches from different men. Yes, you read that right: 7,000. Oh, you mean you didn’t hear about this story? Check it out.
This is happening at a Global level guys, girls in every country are starting to get the majority of their needs met from their smartphones (validation being a big one). A lot of the needs men used to satisfy in a women’s life, are now being met by their surrogate smartphone’s.
2.) Tinder, Bumble, And Other Online Dating Apps Have Largely Replaced Approaching.
I remember when online dating was made fun of by people. I’d often see the line in a girl’s profile that would state something like ”I cant believe I’m actually on here”. Even as late as 2012, it was still regarded as something considered ”weird”. Nowadays its becoming the norm. Now, every girl and her sister is on one these seemingly endless number of swiping apps.
What these dating apps have done, is again they’ve facilitated hypergamy, and they’ve given women more options and more choice than they’ve ever had in human history. Like I mentioned earlier in the article, girls now have ”Dick On Demand”.
Remember: it’s much easier for girls to obtain sex, than it is for guys. Always has been, always will be. Dating apps have made this even more true.
3.) The Same Amount Of Time & Effort, Will Yield You Fewer Results Than It Would Have 15 Years Ago.
Chances are if you’re reading this, then you are single man living in a westernized country. The unfortunate result of these cultural changes, is that game is now harder. The same amount of game that worked 15 years ago, won’t have the same effect if used today in the same context.
So what you need now, is a way to stand out. A way to set yourself apart.
Conclusion/My Solution For How To Handle These Changes & What To Do:
It will be much harder to stand out now (and especially in the future), with the influx of these recent shifts. You may already be starting to notice this.
I mentioned this at the beginning of the article but its worth repeating: you have to learn how to convey value in such a way that it forces you to stand out from the sea of other guys she’s faced with (every day, often multiple times a day).
I believe I have found the guide to doing this.
Also: realize that I am referring to hot, attractive women here. The girls on the attractiveness scale of 7-10, are the one’s I’m talking about when I say she’s faced with men every day, multiple times a day.
So what guide am I referring to?
The way to do this my friends, is through something called: Radical Honesty.
What is radical honesty? Radical honesty is just what it sounds like: you have to be completely upfront and honest with women, about what your true intentions are.
I happen to also have the blueprint for EXACTLY how you can learn how to do this. While it may sound simple, oftentimes things are just easier said than done. The truth is: you have to change your internal beliefs about yourself, before you can expect changes in the external behavior you unconsciously display.
This Book Is Called: ”Mode 1”
(Written by sex & relationship coach Allan Roger Currie)
This book will break things down for you, in an extremely straightforward, step by step manner, which I believe is something that is missing today in most self-help books.
Most self help books will just dump a bunch of theory on you. That is NOT what this book will do. Each chapter has a very in-depth exercise section at the end of it, designed with the specific intent of helping you to internalize the core beliefs and teachings of the book: how to communicate with women through genuine honesty.
If that honesty means walking right up to a woman, looking her dead in the eyes, and telling her you want ”to take her out behind the grocery store and bang her”, then that’s what you’re going to do. This book will teach you exactly how to do that. Note: the above example was taken right out of the book, and is something the author (Allan Roger Currie) actually did.
You would be very, VERY surprised at what happened next.
Now I know that sounds crazy, but trust me, this guy is the real deal. This is the same method that old dating coach David X used back in the day. Some of you older guys may remember David X.
The main problem with David X was (in my opinion), that he wasn’t able to articulate very well exactly what he was doing, that made him so successful with women. You had to know how to read between the lines to really understand what he was teaching you. Why his game worked as well as it did, despite his unflattering look. As men, we need to be told precisely how and why something works.
This help us to get the most out of the information were presented with.
This is just how men are, we are analytical and like to be able to mentally connect the dots in our heads.
It wasn’t until I read ”Mode 1”, that I had an epiphany
and realized what it was about David X’s game that worked so well. Allan Roger Currie, by contrast, has the ability to articulate what he does, and why it works. He’s also very good at communicating how to ingrain these methods into your own everday life.
I simply cannot recommend this book enough, for men out there that are struggling in our modern broken dating market. We all know that the sexual marketplace is fractured and broken, and has been for a while now. ”Mode 1” will give you the exact tools you need to stand out, and get more women than you could’ve ever imagined.
And just for the record, I’m plugging this book simply because it works, and because it will help you guys. In other words: there are no other driving factors involved behind the strong recommendation I’m giving you here (like an affiliate commission for example). ARC hasn’t even set his affiliate program up yet.
I just believe this book gives the answers that men are seeking (and will seek) in today’s fractured dating market. Something has to give, and something about you has to change, if you want to stand out in today’s sexual marketplace (now, or in the future).
Clearly its not easy out there anymore, and I believe its only going to get to worse. It’s kind of like the growing separation between the haves, and the have-nots. Act NOW so you can stand out among other men.
-Matt Mitchell
