You may have heard by now, the term or phrase ”taking the red pill”. Red pill blue pill, what does it all mean? Why do you keep hearing about it?

I’ve mentioned this topic already in a few articles here at Mission Life Motion.

2018 was an interesting year for me, and the # 1 thing that made this year unique for me, was that it was the year that I finally took the Red Pill. I’m going to explain what that means exactly in this article.

There is one thing you are going to learn about the red pill, and that is that once you’ve taken it, you cannot un-take it. In other words: there is no going back.

Once you’ve taken the plunge off the cliff, you cannot defy the laws of gravity, and un-do that decision.

Taking the red pill is no different, it is final.

For the vast majority of men, finding the red pill is something that happens out of heartbreak, or out of loss. Usually the loss of a relationship, or a marriage. Trust they believed they had in their relationship, they come to find out was never really there, and was simply a mere illusion.

Before you get the wrong impression here, let me describe to you my definition of the red pill.

The Red Pill, is an awakening, a revelation. It is you opening and using your eyes for the first time in your life, and seeing things for how they truly are, not what you were brought up to believe they were.

Now because you were told things were a certain way all your life, the natural inclination is for you to want life to ”reinforce” these beliefs.

You want events that happen in your life to back and reinforce the narrative you’ve been fed. 

When something happens in your life, that doesn’t match up with this narrative, it can and often will leave you feeling confused, frustrated, angry, and depressed.

THE BLUE PILL = Still buying into the old narrative you’ve been (mis)lead to believe is the truth.

Opposite of the red pill, is the term ”blue pill conditioning”, which is described right above.

So its a fairly straightforward initial definition of term, but there’s a bit more to it than that. Eventually we’ll dive deeper into the layers of complication that being ”plugged-in” (which is another way of saying ”blue pill”), can cause.

But for now, lets keep it simple. 

The term the ”the Red Pill” was derived from the movie ”The Matrix” from the scene in which Morpheous proposes to Neo that he can take the ”red pill” or the ”blue pill”. That scene is right here:

Anyway, that is where this terminology we are using originally came from.

Put another way: the red pill is simply seeing and accepting the truth about something, no matter how harsh or disheartening that truth may be. The reason the red pill cannot be un-done, is because once you know something to be true deep, deep down, you can no longer lie to yourself.

You may be able to lie to other people, but if deep down you just know something is the truth, you simply cannot lie to yourself anymore.

THE RED PILL = THE TRUTH.

At your core, at your true essence, you know the red pill knowledge you’ve stumbled upon is the truth. In life, when the truth finally presents itself, you just know. You instinctively know in your heart of hearts, in your gut. And seeing the truth for the 1st time, can be devastating.

It can make you re-think your whole life.

Its also addictive. You’ll find yourself suddenly emerged in red pill videos, podcasts, and books. The truth is and always has been, addictive. People yearn for the truth, all day every day, because lets face it: this life we live can be confusing.

Especially when we’re dealing with women.

Confusing and often very frustrating, so we yearn to understand why things are the way they are.

We yearn to know that we aren’t being swayed, and to know that we’re not wasting out precious time. We yearn to know what we’re getting into. Humans don’t like surprises. The red pill, can be used in the context of anything that pertains to the way things really are, whether that be money, finances, currency, health, fitness, or inter-sexual dynamics between people.

The term was first used to describe inter-sexual dynamics, between men and women. Obviously, this original context for the term (inter-sexual dynamics), is the one I’m focusing on here. 

The pill becomes tougher to swallow, the older you are when you finally do discover it. This is because you realize that you’ve been living that much longer, not knowing how things really were.

You were going through your life, with your eyes closed. If all of this still doesn’t quite make sense yet, don’t worry, it will soon enough.

1st Distinction Of The Red Pill: Men and Women Are Fundamentally Different. 

The media, and our modern society, for years has been trying to brainwash you into thinking men and women are alike. I got news for you: we aren’t, and men and women are very, very different.

We always have been, and we always will be.

I need this to sink in for you, because this truth is the foundation around which everything else we’ll discuss concerning the red pill will be built upon. 

The day men and women are equal, and are one in the same, will be the day our our extinction, or at the least beginning of the end. There is a war raging right now in our western society. A war of people who have been brainwashed by this fallacy (that men and and women are the same), and on the other side those like me, who simply know this to be what it is: a lie. 

A lie that was strategically implanted in our minds, as a divide-and-conquer strategy by the elites.

With men and women at odds with each other, we are easier to control. What I’m describing here, is an example of what I would call a ”political red pill”. I don’t want to get too deep into politics here, but there was no way for me to write this article, without this point coming out at least once, because it plays largely into inter-sexual dynamics.

To say it another way: men and women exist to compliment one another. They each bring their own unique natural talents and strengths together to form a unity. An emergent property. 

2nd Distinction Of The Red Pill: Women Are Not The Sweet, Innocent, Little Angels You Grew Up Thinking They Were.

This point, will form the basis upon which 80% if what you’ll read regarding the red pill, will touch on.

Have you ever had your heart broken by a woman? Has this happened to you more than once? Did you ever wonder why your relationships ended the way they did? Did you ever wonder why she treated you so badly towards the end. Why and how she could suddenly completely turn on you and become a different person?

Seemingly at the snap of a finger?

Maybe the experience left you wondering if she was ever showing you her true self in the first place? Well I got news for you brother: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Many a man, has felt the cold, cut-throat wrath of Hypergamy in their lives. In fact, I would venture to guess that most successful, high achieving  men have.

Yes, hypergamy.

Hypergamy is what you were experiencing, and women are dominated by hypergamy.

Hypergamy is in part, a survival mechanism for women. Men are attracted to the re-productive characteristics of a female, and women are attracted to the survival, protector value factor of a male. 

You will not find the Red Pill, the Red Pill will find you.

And it will often be in one of your darkest hours. Its only after you’ve have experienced some degree of loss, or disappointment, that you will discover the red pill. Its at this point that you will go from being ”Plugged-In”, to ”Unplugged”.

3rd Distinction: The Plugged In (Blue Pill) Vs. The Unplugged (Red Pill):

This will be heavily discussed topic in future articles, but is too much to go into right now.

Red pill blue pill, could in large part be an even swap to the meaning of being ”Plugged-in” Vs. ”Unplugged”. 

In short: the frustration lies in the realization that you have been socially programmed, and lied to. No one likes to feel like they’ve been misled, however this is exactly what you realize has been happening when you find the red pill. This is the start of a phase we call ”Red Pill Rage”.

This phase can vary in intensity, and in length, from one man to the next.

The end result, will often be that you simply do like women that much anymore. You see them for how they truly are, and no longer for what you were told by the movies and media they were all your life. This may sound simple, but actually is an extremely intricate, complicated, and a deeply profound experience for men to go through.

The reality is that women, at their core: are ruthless. They are cut-throat, and they will stop at nothing, to secure what they feel is their best option in a man.

They can and often will turn on you, and will do so by stabbing you SQUARELY in the back. You mean nothing to them in comparison to what their hypergamy dictates. You are disposable. Its not you that they love and appreciate, its simply what you can offer them.

This is a very hard truth for men to accept, and that’s because men are not like this. Men do not view women in the way that women view men.

4th Distinction: EMOTIONS, & HYPERGAMY

A man does not only view a potential mate, only in terms of what she can offer him, he often lets his emotions get involved.

Women on the other hand, despite popular belief, do not let their emotions get involved. 

They might in the very beginning, and some men can keep women hooked on them for months or even years, through manipulating their emotions. Some men are very good at this, but the vast majority of men aren’t. In fact: its women, not men, who are the real masters of manipulating emotions. This is another red pill truth bomb, and conflicts greatly with what you’ve been told is truth.

The illusion that we’re fed is that men are liars, cheaters, and manipulators. And while some men are like this, its men that are more often than not, the loyal ones. Women more often than not, are the ones who lie, cheat, and manipulate.

This is a reality that has been inverted by women, back on men as a distraction, to help serve the feminine primary social order. 

Sooner or later, emotions will ware off for a woman in a relationship, and when that happens all that will be left is her hypergamy. Her ruthless, cut-throat, unforgiving, hypergamy. If her hypergamy dictates that you aren’t her best option, then emotions no longer matter. You probably still posses emotions for her, but do not think that she holds those same emotions for you: she doesn’t.

Hypergamy, does not give two shits about your emotions, or you. It is the survival nature of hypergamy to weed out any and all male options, that reveal themselves to be sub-optimal.

You see its not technically women, that men who find the red pill, get rage over, it is hypergamy.

The problem, is you cannot separate the two. You cannot have a loving relationship with an attractive woman, and not have hypergamy constantly brewing right beneath the surface. It will always be there, ALWAYS.

The minute you get comfortable, the minute you start thinking you’re off the hook, the minute you think you can kick your felt back and relax, is the minute hypergamy will remind you that you can’t. And it will remind of you this brutally.

You cannot escape hypergamy, you just can’t. You’re going to have to learn to live your life knowing what it is, and that it will always be there. You’re going to have to re-wire the way you see and think about your life, as it pertains to women. This can hard to do for a lot of men because it means they’ll have to un-do years and years of social conditioning.

CONCLUSION:

It will be one of my primary aims, from this point forward here at Mission Life Motion, to help men navigate the unfamiliar waters of hypergamy, and the red pill.

Red pill blue pill differences, and how to always keep them in your conscious awareness.

My whole life, I have experienced the wrath of hypergamy. Although nothing too drastic has happened to me, on several occasions I have had to pull myself out of depression, and put the pieces of my life back together after being left in the dust.

I’m alive and well, and live a very productive and happy life. But it hasn’t always been this way, and if you’re at the point in your life where you’re just now finding the red pill, then chances are high you’ve recently experienced pain.

I’ve been there, and I’m here to tell you that you are not alone. I cannot say that enough times, or overstate the importance of it.

What I want to leave you with here, is the statement that your life can take two directions upon first discovering the red pill:

1.) You can use the truth and red pill awareness towards good, productive ends, or

2.) Use red pill awareness towards bad, unproductive, and destructive ends.

You can go the dark side, or you can use the truth to set you free. You have a choice to make, we all do.

Don’t hate women for being who they are, or who they always were, hate the system for trying to convince you otherwise. Its not women’s fault, its our modern society’s for trying to brainwash you into serving their agenda. Never forget that.

 

-Matt Mitchell