What you’re about to read, might be one of the most important articles I’ve ever written at MissionLifeMotion.com
It would be well worth your time, to bookmark this article and refer back to it often.
I’m going to unload some very harsh, very cruel red pill truths on you here.
I’m not doing this because I’m bitter, I’m not doing this because I’m an asshole, and I’m definitely not doing this because I don’t like women (I do by the way, very much actually).
I’m doing this because it’s my duty to communicate to men, what I know to be the truth about life and women. It took me almost 33 years of my life, to fully understand and internalize what you’re about to read here.
Some of you may not respond well, and that’s to be expected. Not everyone who reads this is as unplugged as they thought they were (not everyone who reads this will even know what being unplugged means, and those are the ones who will really be upset).
I want you to think about nature for a second.
What is nature?
What are the characteristics of nature?
A lot is probably coming to mind right now for you as you think about that. One thing about nature, is that it can be cruel and unforgiving. Nature does not care about you.
When nature is upset, you can be disposed of within a matter of seconds. Whether that be by a tornado, a hurricane, or an earthquake for example.
The point is: you are expendable in nature. Men have a nature to them. Men have a dark side to them when we’re talking about nature.
ALL nature, has a dark, unforgiving side to it.
Female nature is no different.
In fact: if you live long enough, you’ll discover that the dark side of female nature, oftentimes is FAR worse, than the dark side of male nature.
There is good reason for this: survival. Females are this way, because this is how they evolved, and is how they survived over millennia. None of us would be here right now, if females had not figured out how to evolve and had not figured out coping and survival mechanisms.
Men figured out what they needed to do to survive as well of course, as the female needed the sperm to pro-create. However men were never in fear of survival to the same degree that women were in fear of it.
Because of this, women had to develop ruthless, unforgiving survival mechanisms to ensure the human race’s survival and existence.
One such truth that resulted from this is as follows.
Hear this now:
Women do not care about you.
Women do not and have not, ever cared about you. Let me repeat that because its the most important thing that I’ll say in this whole blog:
Women will never care about, or love a man in the way that he will care about her. They just are not concerned about you, or what your needs are.
This is a fundamental, inherent difference between men and women.
Men have a very hard time understanding this about women. The reason for that is because no part of a man can relate to a woman on this level.
Men did not evolve the same way women did.
By now you should know what the term ”Hypergamy” means.
Women’s sexual and survival strategy is rooted in hypergamy. Hypergamy dictates that a woman seek out the highest value man, who can ideally also provide provisioning for her and satisfy her long-term needs. A woman wants to pass her genes on with a strong, dominant male, so she can ensure the survival of her offspring…
A woman’s hypergamy, cannot afford to pass up a better opportunity (a higher value man), when such an opportunity legitimately presents itself.
In other words: at her core, sometimes she feels like she HAS to seize an opportunity, and oftentimes that means that she ends up breaking her commitment to you (cheating).
Hypergamy is nature in a sense, and it does not care about morality or commitment.
Morality, truth, honor…these are male characteristics.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about vows that were taken or the investment you’ve put in (or even the investment that she’s put in).
Hypergamy simply does not care about any of these things.
Just like nature does not care.
Nature cares about nature, and nature’s needs only. Women are ruled by their nature, and their nature is hypergamy.
They are slaves to it.
They will never admit this, but this is one of those truths most people won’t talk about.
An attractive woman, cannot afford to pass up better opportunities if her hypergamy dictates there is a better one. Women do not always make logical decisions, but if you think about it actually, there is no more of a ”logical” decision a woman can make than to monkey branch up to a higher value man.
That’s as logical a decision as a woman could ever make, because it ensures better survival for her offspring.
So who really are the logical ones here, and who are the emotional ones when we’re talking about men and women?
It’s an interesting thing to consider.
A woman’s love for you is conditional.
It’s conditional under the assumption you will provide for her (survival) and will satisfy the needs her hypergamy dictates.
A woman will always be thinking to herself things like:
-What can this man do for ME? (solipsism)
-What can I gain by associating myself with this man (whether sexually or non-sexually?) (solipsism)
-Where is MY opportunity here? (solipsism)
-Can this man satisfy MY needs and wants? (solipsism)
-Can this man give me the kind of life I want to show off to MY friends, and will it be one that will keep ME from getting bored? After all, my social status is very important to me because of the validation I constantly need. (solipsism)
-Can he satisfy MY sexual needs? (solipsism)
-Is he taller than ME? (solipsism)
-Would he give ME good looking, strong children? (solipsism)
Whether a woman is aware she’s thinking these things or not, believe me:
ALL WOMEN wonder these things to themselves when considering a man as a potential sexual option.
They even consider some of these things with men they already know they aren’t going to get intimate with. Again, it’s all about what you can do for them.
Some men have a hard time with this reality.
The only reason it may be upsetting to you is because this is not the narrative you were brought up to believe was the case. You were raised on something called ”blue pill conditioning”, and that conditioning taught you that women were ”sugar and spice and all things nice”.
This is the biggest lie that’s ever been sold.
Women are not the innocent little creatures you grew up thinking they were.
As you grew up you were told all kinds of lies about women. You were fed the narrative that women are the ”victims” and that men are the assholes who are constantly cheating on them and holding them down.
While this does happen sometimes, the point I’m making here is that our western society drove these points home and exaggerated them beyond what is truly reality.
Again: I’m not saying some men don’t cheat. I’m not saying there aren’t scumbags out there. What I am saying: is that it’s not as bad as what society and Hollywood would have you believe it is.
What the Elites would have you believe.
The reality is: a woman could turn on you at any given moment. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been with her for a few weeks, or for 25 years. If her hypergamy dictates there is a better option: then you’re on the outs pal. It’s over. Its just so fucking over for you.
You might as well be dead and fucking gone in her eyes.
This is why you see women divorce men after 30 years of marriage sometimes.
If you’ve experienced harsh breakups in your life, you’ve probably noticed how quickly the women moved on from the relationship.
They IMMEDIATELY forget and stop caring, about everything the two of you ever went through together.
It was only a matter of time before the internet was eventually going to expose true female nature. The old saying that old men used to say: ”Women, I guess we’ll never figure them out…” is not true anymore.
We have finally figured out women guys, it’s no big secret anymore like it may have been 30 years ago. The red pill has cracked the code. There is nothing more to understand about women, than what you’ll read on this blog.
It’s over, the ”jig” is up.
The only men who will continue to get fooled are the men who choose to get fooled. The men who choose to expose themselves, and who continue to live by their old blue pill conditioning.
They have chosen their fate, and you’ve chosen to be awake.
I commend you, because the truth, as you’re finding out, can be a very tough pill to swallow.
Fact: 8 out of 10 divorces are initiated by women. Oftentimes this is done ruthlessly, and without compassion, remorse, or sympathy on the woman’s part.
Even if there is a sliver of empathy for you, that will not stop her from zeroing you out and taking you for everything you’re worth.
She’ll still squash you like you’re a fucking bug.
Fact: Women get bored faster than men do in relationships. This most definitely contributes to the previous fact that 8 out of 10 divorces are intuited by women.
You better be constantly turning your mental wheels about ways to keep your relationship interesting and from getting stale (if you value it).
Fact: A woman’s looks and sexual market value peak much faster than men’s do. This is one element of the red pill that is unflattering to women. Up to this point, it may have seemed like all these truths came at the expense of men. Not true: some of these red pill truths work to a man’s benefit.
The fact is: women hit ”the wall” at around age 26-30.
Their shelf life is much shorter than a man’s.
This is why men age better than women do.
Men age like fine wine, women age like avocados.
When an attractive woman IS in her prime, there’s almost nothing more dangerous. An 18-24 year old woman can be as seductive and as tempting as the Devil incarnate.
Understand though that once she hits the wall, those days are over. While she may still maintain her looks and body into her 30’s and even her 40’s, she is still past the wall.
Men, on the other hand, don’t peak out until somewhere around age 38-43.
Fact: the younger a woman is, and the more sexual partners she has had prior to you, the more likely she is to initiate a divorce.
Research has taken place that can back this statement. The more sexual partners a female has had, the less capable she is of pair-bonding with a man. At a certain point, it becomes basically impossible for her to form a real connection with you.
If you really want to find a diamond in the rough, then you would have to find a virgin.
Fact: A woman never belongs to you, it’s just your turn.
This is exponentially true for a very attractive woman. The more attractive the woman is, the more true this statement becomes.
Extremely attractive women can never belong to just one man. There is too much competition and there are too many other men out there who have higher value than you do.
At some point, sooner or later, she will stumble across one of these men, and it’s only a matter of time at that point.
This is exactly why you should never get too emotionally invested in a woman, especially an attractive one.
Most very attractive woman are community property.
Never, EVER forget this.
A truly physically attractive woman can NEVER solely belong to one man, it’s simply just your turn.
Fact: Women are inherently solipsistic.
Solipsism(Definition): ”the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist.”
This has to do with how females evolved.
In our history, when tribes from other lands would invade, and would bombard and kill off that society’s men, they would take the women and children. Women then, as a survival mechanism, had to learn to come to love their new captors.
They had to learn to adapt to their new life under the rule of the invading tribe. If they didn’t, they would have been killed.
Women learned this as a survival mechanism. They had to learn to not only adapt to their captors, but they had to learn to fucking love them.
The tribe’s females had to learn to love the men that invaded and killed the men that ruled the tribe before they invaded.
They had to learn to love the men that killed the fathers of their own children.
As unsettling and disturbing as this may be, this what actually happened guys.
Again: this is the reason why women are able to move so quickly after a breakup. It’s because in centuries past, this is how they survived: by moving on and putting the memories of their prior lovers behind them.
Fact: Women use men to fulfill certain needs, and oftentimes they use different men to fulfull these different needs. For some reason, a lot of men just cannot wrap their heads around the idea that women actually spin plates. Guys, I got news for you: women spin plates! Not only that, but women in most cases, are actually better at spinning plates than men are.
This is because of what I just said: women use different men to fulfill their different needs.
This is a good opportunity to talk about social media (namely Instagram).
Women use men on social media to fulfill their need for validation, and attention. All women have these two needs. Some women have them slightly more than others, but at the end of the day: ALL women have a need for validation.
Here’s one thing you need to understand about women: they are different than men, in more ways than one.
That should be fairly obvious to you at this point.
I’ll give you a great example of that here in a second, but I want to drive the point home that this is the most common mistake I see guys making when it comes to women: they assign male characteristics to female behavior. This is a huge mistake. Probably because this subject (the one I’m about to go into), is not very often discussed on podcasts or blogs.
There is a very low overall general awareness of the fact that society has been programming you for years, to think that men and women are the same. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Let me give a great example. Men are driven by testosterone, and women are driven by estrogen. On the surface, you might think you understand all of what that entails, but there is a deep rabbit hole that runs through this fact (that one sex is driven by testosterone, and the other is driven by estrogen).
Take morality, and having an ethical code for example (we’ll leave logic out of this for now, although what I’m about to say is true of that too): these are male characteristics, not female characteristics.
Women do not truly understand what it means to have ethics, or morals, or a code that governs those two principals in their lives.
The minute you stop offering or providing value to your women, is the very minute she’ll turn around and slit your proverbial throat. She’ll zero you out, she’ll divorce rape you, or she’ll make a false rape accusation. She’ll cut off communication with you and act like you never meant anything to her.
Women are capable of showing no mercy when it comes to eradicating men from their lives, men that no longer are useful to them.
To most women, a man is simply an object. He is there to fulfill one or more of her needs, whether those be sexual, monetary, social, or validational. There is an unspoken agreement (at least in her mind) that you, as the man in the relationship, should continue to provide your part of the arrangement.
She also needs to trust you to lead the relationship. She doesn’t want the responsibility of leading the relationship herself. That is your job. If she doesn’t feel you’re up to the task, or are capable of doing that, then she’ll start planning her exit strategy. In other words: she needs to be able to trust you to do what’s right, play your part (continue offering your value), and be the leader.
Women HATE weak men.
I don’t even think the word ”hate” is strong to describe the sheer disgust and disdain that women have for men who have no backbone. They hate, hate , hate, HATE weak men.
I hope I made myself clear there. Ultimately, what happens when she feels that you’re no longer capable of offering her value, is that you have become weak. You have become complacent. You have lost your edge, your drive, your fire. This happens to a lot of men after they get comfortable in their relationships.
Because women hate weak men (or men that have turned weak over time), they feel no remorse whatsoever when they divorce you or leave you.
In fact, they are often actually happy about it. They’ll laugh at the thought of you being heartbroken, and they often do this while they’re off banging some other scumbag (who is probably fulfilling her sexual needs, and her need for excitement and drama).
Sometimes women are even resentful of you, even after they harshly break everything off with you. Now, why would this be?
This one’s pretty simple: a lot of women feel duped after breaking up with a man.
They feel like they were sold a bad bag of goods. You presented yourself one way, were a good actor there for a while, and then did the old ”bait and switch”. This may or may not what actually transpired, but a lot of women see it this way, unfortunately.
This is a violation to their hypergamy. They feel like they wasted years of their SMV youth, on a man they should have never gotten with in the 1st place. Now maybe she’s past the wall (let’s say for example she’s 32 now), and is going to have a much harder time competing with those 18-24 year old girls for the highest valued males in the sexual marketplace.
It’s for this reason that many women get resentful of men, even if they are the ones who break it off.
By the way, it’s almost always the woman who ends things.
You have to remember the short window that women have in the sexual marketplace (to lock down the highest provisioning males): it is much shorter than a man’s is.
Please know that behavioral characteristics I’m describing here about women is true of most of them, but not necessarily ALL of them. Yes, there are going to be some women out there, who will not do some of the things I’m talking about here. Some women are exceptions to the rule. But exceptions don’t make the rule do they?
Just understand that those women are very few, and very far between.
Here’s another thing you need to know about women: women envy men. Many women have what’s called ”penis envy”. In other words: women want what men have.
Now why would this be? Well once you understand it, it’s actually pretty simple. It has to do with hypergamy. Women want the high paying corporate jobs, so that they can have access to the highest value males. They want some kind of ”say” in their sexual strategy, which of course is open hypergamy.
By climbing the corporate ladder, women can bypass the beta males (the weaker men that they hate), and have access to highest provision males in society. This is how hypergamy works. This is how women have developed control in the sexual marketplace.
It’s a sad state of affairs right now in this country to see this playing out.
The Government fully supports this movement to lift women up at the expense of men (the Elites do). The Government knows that by promoting female empowerment (and ultimately hypergamy) that men and women will be divided and at odds with one another.
This agenda makes men and women easier to control and manipulate.
Remember: their strategy is to divide and conquer.
So how are men suffering at the expense?
Well if I even have to explain it: hypergamy will eventfully ensure that 20% of the men in a society, will breed with 80% of the women (if hypergamy has its way and is left unimpeded). That leaves 80% of the remaining men in society to only be able to breed with the remaining bottom 20% of the women. And this bottom 20% will be the least desirable ones.
The math doesn’t work out, and what you end up with is a broken, fractured society with a bunch of unmotivated men.
This is why you have men in our society addicted to video games, addicted to pornography, and shooting up schools. Men are getting fed up with this, and women are all too happy to shove it right in their faces.
This is what happens when women are given free rein over the sexual marketplace. This is what happens when you open the floodgates of hypergamy.
Anyway, I don’t want to get lost in that topic, as it’s off subject and I could go on for hours about it. Nature states that men are the dominant species. Men as the dominant species, is how we evolved over millennia and how we got to where we are now.
This is nature. In all nature, and I do mean ALL of nature: the males are dominant over the females. The minute you start to go against nature, the minute you start to reverse what nature has dictated, is the minute you’ll start running into problems.
Women, despite what some of them may say, do not want to be dominant over men. The opposite is true: women want men to dominate them. Women want to be subservient to men. This is why many women have ”rape” fantasies.
CONCLUSION:
Women are inherently solipsistic. This is just how they are guys. The sooner you come to accept this about women, the sooner you’ll stop letting yourself get all worked up and disappointed by their actions. And it is their actions that matter, not their words. Another very crucial point to never forget.
You have to learn how to be de-tatched. She has to compliment your life, she cannot be the focus of it. Instead, YOU have to be the focus, YOU have to be the prize, and YOU have to be your own mental point of origin.
Don’t make the mistake of making her these things in your life.
”A woman should only ever be a compliment to a man’s life, she should never be the focus”
-Rollo Tomassi
Until next time guys: keep chasing excellence and your mission, not women.
-Matt Mitchell
Hey Matt, AJ from youtube. Just wanted to say your videos and articles have had a massive positive impact on my life. Keep it up man! Finally past my personal training certification and credit your vids for motivating me to stick with it.
I’m happy to hear that AJ. Congratulations on getting the personal training certification. The video’s will be back soon, its a very busy time of the year right now with my other businesses, but stay tuned. Really glad to hear my videos have helped you.