Something has been on my mind lately. This is something that’s recently become a huge pet peeve of mine.
It’s very straightforward, and far too many young men are doing it nowadays. What am I referring to?
It’s the act of:
Apologizing Or Explaining Yourself And Your Actions To Other People.
Please…..PLEASE, for the love of any and everything that was ever holy and sacred:
STOP APOLOGIZING AND EXPLAINING YOURSELF!!
Millennial’s tend to be more guilty of doing this. If you’re gonna sit there and call yourself a man, then this is a behavior that you need to eradicate from your life yesterday.
Let me make something crystal clear to you: You cannot be a man, and feel the need to constantly explain yourself to other people on a consistent basis.
They are oxy-morons. A man does not apologize for his actions. (hell even a woman shouldn’t apologize for her actions on a reoccurring basis).
A man goes out, and does what he wants, when he wants. He makes no apologies for his desires, interests, and views towards the world.
He is who is he is, and if anybody has a problem with that……well, then they can take take a long walk off a short pier.
Women are disgusted at a man that’s constantly explaining himself and his words or actions. Be simple, be blunt, and be straightforward when you speak to people.
Simple, blunt, and to the point, just like Dirty Harry.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say. There shouldn’t be much room for interpretation. If there is, then you’re not being clear enough with your words.
There is no room for interpretation behind what I’m telling you to do in this article. This article is as straightforward as it gets.
That’s how you should be in the way you communicate with people, not just towards women, but with everyone. Be who you are and make no apologies for it.
Who gives a shit if you offend someone? The most important opinion is the one you have about yourself. You are the only person you need to impress.
On that same token however, you need to hold yourself to high standards. You cannot be a worthless, pothead loser with no direction or focus.
Content to just sit around on your ass playing video games all day. If that’s all you spend your life doing, pretty soon you’ll become a burden to the rest of us. Don’t be a directionless, uninspired underachiever.
You can lie to yourself all day long and say you’re happy living that way. But deep down you’ll know that’s a lie. You can only fool yourself for so long.
A man needs a mission, he needs purpose, and he needs direction and focus.
Have goals, have a mission, have purpose. Don’t let yourself get taken off course everyday by getting distracted. If you’re this way right now, don’t get discouraged.
That’s one reason you’re reading this article: so you can become self-aware and put a bullet in the head of living an apologetic life.
I’m here to write articles like this to bring awareness to those that need it.
Those of you that already are aware can spread my message and give it to those that need it.
Plus its always good to read a refresher on matters as important as these ones.
Go out and take what’s yours. Start acting like you have a pair of goddamn balls. The so called ”bad bitches” are always going to end up with the men that display these characteristics. That’s why you always see hot women with the ”bad boys”.
Bikers, outlaws, CEO’S, and rich guys.
What’s more attractive to a woman about a man that has a lot of money was his ability to go out and take what he wanted. This triggers her attraction towards him than the actual money itself.
It’s not not about getting the girls however, it never was. It’s about being a man that has self respect.
A man who knows exactly who and what he is, and making no apologies for it.
Be that man, and you’ll be much happier.
Until next time,
Live Intentionally,
-Matt Mitchell
