Why Women & Men Get So Offended By The Red Pill Truth

You most likely have noticed by now, that red pill truths are not received very well by most women, and not even by a lot of men.

Interestingly enough, the red pill actually does have a small, select female audience.

You may have also noticed this by now too.

Women who call into shows like ”Before The Trainwreck”, ”Rule Zero”, or the ”Red Pill 101” YouTube podcasts. This audience will continue to slowly expand as the truths of the red pill come more and more into conscious awareness.

These women will continue to remain in the minority, however.

This article will explain why this is, and why it’s important for you to internalize why.

For the vast majority of women and men (but especially women), the topics discussed in the red pill are considered ”unflattering”, and that’s often putting it mildly.

Men in this community, will inevitably eventually be labeled as ”misogynists, male supremacists, patriarchs”, and ”sexist suppressors of women”.

Why is this? Other than the obvious fact that people tend to lean towards binary extremes in this day and age of the internet? Well, there are actually several important reasons why this is.

Let’s dive into them.

Let’s begin with the most basic but at the same time one of the truest realities about life:

The Truth Often Sounds Like Hate Because People Have Been Brainwashed Their Whole Lives By Social Conditioning.

”Blue Pill conditioning” to be more exact.

We have all grown up and been raised (mostly by women) to behave and conduct ourselves in a certain way. We were raised to be upstanding members of society, and to display manners, to treat people with respect, and to treat others the way we would like to be treated.

There of course is nothing wrong with any of these, and these lessons have their place in an orderly and structured society.

However it’s important to understand these standards of conduct were put into society for reason: to keep people in line.

These ways of living we were raised on, end up having some unintended consequences for men. One consequence is that when a man understands the true, deep, primal nature of a woman, and talk about it, it’s going to come off as very harsh and unflattering.

The reason for this is because until recently: these were not realities about inter-sexual dynamics that people were bringing light to with any level of regularity.

I think a lot of this has do to with men not feeling like they necessarily had to yet (be bringing light to the truth about women).

The other reason is most men just ultimately didn’t know the red pill truth about women, but that’s what I’m getting at here: in our society at the time, men had not yet evolved to a point where they needed to know.

With the changes we’ve seen in our cultural society over the last 50 years, men had not yet been pushed past their breaking points, because society had not yet decayed into what it is currently becoming.

That has now changed.

The Rise Of ”Open Hypergamy”

With the fall of our western civilization (which is rapidly occurring right now) and the rise of feminism, you’re starting to see the rise of what’s called ”open hypergamy”.

You see, in an organized and structured society, something like hypergamy is kept in check. All men knew, hundreds of thousands of years ago, that women were hypergamous by nature.

They innately knew this already.

Men today now have to be taught this by guys like me. They have to be taught about the true nature of women (the good and bad) because they grew up getting brainwashed and blue-pilled.

Hundreds of years ago though, this was something men already knew about women.

So these men structured society in such a way that the men who weren’t only in the top 20% (of the most desirable men) would still be motivated to contribute to society in some way.

You see when men aren’t getting laid, or don’t think they have a chance with women, they lose their incentive to do much of anything in their lives. They become vampires, feeding on society instead of contributing to it.

You also have to remember that men have 17X the testosterone levels that women do. What this translates to is very simple: men are motivated by sex. Everything is about sex for men, everything.

Everything a man does, in one way or another, is rooted in his desire to spread his seed. This is his biological imperative. Women’s biological imperative is hypergamy. A man and a woman’s biological imperatives, cannot both be maximized in the same society: they are fundamentally at odds with other.

The success and advancement of one biological imperative means it comes at the expense of the other imperative.

There has never in recorded history, been a society (at least not a successful one) where the feminine biological imperative took the reigns over the male imperative (which is unlimited sexual options for spreading his seed).

The reason for that, is exactly because of what I just mentioned: men (who have built every great society in human history) would otherwise become severely unmotivated.

Women would be free to act like animals and would show no constraint or self-control. Their ugly, primal base tendencies would rise to the surface (much like what we’re starting to see now). 

The Rise Of MGTOW and ”Incels”

Gee, I wonder if all this has anything to do with the recent rise of MGTOW?

I wonder if this has anything to do with the rise of ”Incels” and sexually frustrated guys like Elliot Roger who shot and killed 16 people in California back in 2014 (due in large part to a lack of female companionship)

You starting to see a connection here?

What you are witnessing my friend: is western society falling apart at the seams, right in front of your eyes. Many men have resigned to sitting poolside with a beer in hand while they watch the structure burn to the ground.

Women want their sexual strategy to win.

They want to have full choice and have options in who they mate with.

A woman’s hypergamy instructs her to seek out only the best of the best males in a society (the top 10-20%).

What this of course does, is it leaves out 80-90% of men.

And it’s these men that end up getting completely and utterly unmotivated.

What do think that means for society?

Whatever it is, it’s not good….. it’s not good at all my friend.

This is why (eventually) feminism will become self-correcting problem. A society cannot sustain itself like this.

Feminism (just like socialism) simply does not work for society.

The point here is that when men talk about the red pill truth regarding women and their true, primal natures: it exposes women’s sexual strategy and imperative.

The female sexual imperative (hypergamy), had been safely protected until very recently.

Most modern men in society didn’t know about hypergamy, or the true primal nature of women.

I’m not saying the true primal nature of women is bad, I’m saying it just is.

This strategy has helped women survive over millennia. 

When women look at the the red pill community and content, and they’re all realizing the ”jig is up” so to speak.

That men have cracked their code, they have finally figured out what has been going on.

Some of these men are very, very pissed off about it. They are mad because they found out the truth too late. Perhaps after they got divorce-raped, or zeroed out.

Not knowing or understanding women for how they really are is a very dangerous, ignorant place to live for a man.

Many men are realizing this. I say it’s not women these men should be mad at, it’s this brainwashing society that convinced them women were something they never really were. 

Disney, Hollywood, the media…to name a few. Society in general really.

We are living in a ”Gynocracy”.

Another term for this is the ”feminine-primary social order”. Essentially, what this means is that the elites (those are the very top) have an agenda for pushing female empowerment.

This started as the sexual revolution back in the mid-1960s-1970s. One of the real, true, core reasons behind this, was that they wanted to double the workforce (in order to push wages down).

The other reason this movement was started, was as a way to divide the sexes (to cause internal strife).

A nation divided is much easier to manipulate and control than a nation that isn’t. ”Divide and conquer” as the saying goes. 

There’s a whole lot more to it than that, but to make a long story very short: know that this is why feminism developed.

This is an important thing to realize here: it was not women who started feminism, feminism was started by those in control (as an agenda to control both men and women).

Women are not free in our current western society. Women are not happy in our current western society. They are now slaves to the system. They were duped, and are continuing to get duped every day. Being told they need to pursue a ”career” instead of a husband, or a family.

Being told they need to act and dress like sluts, and then post it all over social media. 

Women had almost nothing to do with the advent of feminism, they were just a useful pawn in the overall plan/agenda. The details behind all of that are too far and too deep to go into right now, and they’re not the subject of this article.

For now, just understand that as a society, we have grown up with the ideals and beliefs of this ”feminine-primary social order”, being rammed down our throats.

Here are some of those ideals summarized:

–That ”egalitarian” relationships are normal and are what we should be striving for.

–The idea that men and women are equal, and should be measured by the exact same standards.

–The idea that a woman can do any and everything a man can do. You can very clearly see them promoting this idea in Hollywood nowadays (this is absolutely sickening, not to mention dangerous, and it should piss you off).

–The idea that women should be as much of the workforce as men are, again being held to the same standards as men.

This has forced women to have tap into their masculine, while at the same time having to hold onto certain aspects of their feminine. This is a balancing act that isn’t easy to constantly keep up.

”Blue-Pilled” social conditioning.

So growing up, we were all bombarded with these ideas and have all had them hammered into our heads.

This has been happening for so long, and was so flawlessly executed, that no one even stops to question how absurd some of these ideas actually are.

Even women who grow up in conservative families, who vote republican all their lives, and who claim ”they don’t buy into feminism”’, or any of its teachings, have these beliefs very deeply ingrained into their worldview, without even realizing it.

I’ll use my mother as an example. My mother grew up in a conservative household. She has always voted conservatively, and always has self-identified as a woman who doesn’t agree with the feminists and ”man-haters”.

However one of the main areas of contention between her and my father, was that she was always stuck with the household duties. This woman falsely had been raised to believe that household duties (which have always traditionally been the responsibility of the female), should be split 50/50 between the man and the woman.

This is ridiculous. It’s a perfect example of an idea that was ”planted” into society and pushed as something married couples should strive for.

Now, this is just one small example of what I’m getting at here. There was actually a lot more to the strife between my parents, but we won’t get into those details here.

So why do men object to or show aversion to the red pill?

The obvious name for men that haven’t yet unplugged themselves, is the term ”blue pill”.

Blue pill men are men who are still ”plugged in” to the view of the world they were raised with.

In other words: they haven’t yet come to understand how the world really works, or the true, primal nature of women. These are men who are in the danger zone of one day getting ”zeroed-out”.

Their oblivious blue pill conditioning leaves them in a very emotionally (and financially) exposed position. 

These are men who are more likely to one day get divorce-raped.

Men who are much more likely to get cheated on.

These men often react even worse than women do when you shed light on the realities of female nature. The core reason behind why some men react very badly to red pill truths is because (often for the first time in their lives), their worldview is being ”shattered” to a million pieces before their very eyes.

Women on the other hand, usually already know you’re telling the truth when you say something red pill.

They just hate that you’re saying it.

Men, naturally have an idealistic view of women and their relationships with them.

That part is extremely important, so go back and read that one more time: Idealistic.

Women do not hold this same viewpoint towards their relationships with men. To a woman: any relationship is simply something that presents her with an opportunity.

Women are opportunistic by nature.

This can very hard for some men to accept because it directly goes against the narrative men have been fed all their lives.

Women get mad at the red pill community for talking about these things, because they know we’re telling the truth.

They’re finally being exposed.

Men get mad because they’re realizing what they thought was the truth about women all along, was really just a lie.

People often get shocked by the truth the first time they hear it. The truth is not always the easiest pill to swallow.

It’s like finding out Santa Clause isn’t real.

The problem, is people become ego-invested in their beliefs.

And when their belief systems are shattered, it doesn’t always bode for the person delivering the truth bomb.

Even as you read this blog (going forward), I will say things and will make light of things, that will bother you to your core.

That’s because even now, you’re still having to undo years and years of social programming. Unplugging yourself, truly unplugging yourself, will take YEARS.

The true test of your will and resolve, will be whether you maintain your red pill frame after you enter into a relationship.

This situation will show you if you are truly red pill aware, or if you’ve just been fooling yourself this whole time.

Tip: if you find out you’re not, don’t be too hard on yourself (the first time at least), because as I said: it takes years. Just understand the sooner you truly unplug, the faster you’ll be able to experience peak happiness with a girl.

More reasons why men reject the red pill:

1) Most men don’t truly believe they’re equipped to handle women in today’s dating market. They don’t truly believe they have what it takes to make the necessary life changes.

When I say this, I mean they don’t believe it on a deep, subconscious level.

These life changes include:

–Stopping their porn-watching habit.

–Walking away from their lifelong habit of playing video games.

-Not taking creative measures to enhance themselves in certain areas of their lives.

–Not willing to get into and maintain being in shape.

–Not willing to approach or be ballsy with women(not willing to put up with and endure rejection).

–Not willing (or able) to be financially responsible.

2) A lot of men, surprisingly, actually have achieved red pill awareness, but they never act on it, largely for the reasons I just outlined above.

They decide to willfully ignore the truth because the truth is too harsh for them. They know they don’t have what it takes to truly live a life of red pill awareness, so they sort of pretend they never stumbled upon it.

(I believe this always comes back to bite these men in the ass too)

3) A lot of men nowadays have raised by single mothers, so it’s not hard to see how their views have been skewed.

4) A lot of men get introduced to the red pill by their friends. This is a mistake because a man has to seek out this material, he cannot be shown it.

Never try to unplug someone that’s not ready to be, trust me.

CONCLUSION:

If this is all new to you, then you’re likely realizing you have a lot to learn.

I’m might even be emotionally ”pinging” you now as you read this.

That’s because I’m dropping truth bombs you’ve never heard anyone voice before. 

Just know people are always going to be offended by the truth. Especially the first time they hear it.

The male sexual imperative could be considered ”offensive” as well if you think about it: the fact that men have it hardwired into them to sleep with as many women as possible.

So either way: talking about both female or male sexual imperatives can be shocking depending on who’s listening.

The difference with women is that our society (our feminine-primary social order), has tried to convince you otherwise. They’ve been actively trying to cover up and divert your attention from it, for years now, which is the reason it’s so infuriating.

Men finally end up unplugging and realizing later in life, that they’ve had the wool pulled down over their eyes.

If they’d known women were like this all along, there would be nothing to be angry over. 

 

-Matt Mitchell